Why we do what we do?

In my last post I detailed out how our reactions to circumstances create circumstances of the future.

This may give a reader hope that he/ she can determine his/her own future. This belief can be attributed as partly true. Though the fact is that we can only aim at a target future and the actual may be very different based upon external factors. It is like shooting an arrow on a desired target but the wind deviates it course.

Taking this target and arrow conjecture there are two questions that arise.

1. How do we determine our target?
2. How do we aim?

The questions seem simple to answer but they are not.

Take a moment and think. Determine two points in the future- One should be in the very near future- Today 5 PM perhaps and second is say 5-10 years later. Now think about what do you want your circumstance to be during both those points.

Suppose the answers are

1. I want to be back at home today at 5 PM
2. I want to be a multi millionaire in 10 years

These two being the desired circumstances the question I want to pose is why these two only? Why should it happen that everybody will have a different (atleast slightly different) answer to these questions.

This leads me to a conclusion: The sum total of all our experiences in the past have a major effect on our present thought process.

I would like to explain experience in my framework before carrying on. An experience is the impression made by a circumstance, reaction and event on the human thought. For every cicrcumstance we react in a particular manner, which results into something +ve or -ve. This whole cycle creates an impression on our mind. We call this impression an experience. All these experiences collect somewhere back in our minds and we subconsciously refer to most relevant experiences whenever a circumstance presents itself.

The above answers of mine are a distillation of what I have interpreted from my experiences. It all distills down to these. This is how I and you decide our targets. Now I will explain how we aim.

Close your eyes and imagine that you are on top of a very high building. What else flashes? I bet all the similar moments when you were standing somewhere high. What do you think? You will think based upon whatever your experience was during those moments. They will be either dread or joy based upon whatever your experiences were. Then there will be another round of experiences - you may think about your loved ones and experiences with them and so on.

You will feel a huge push behind you. This is a push created by all the experiences brought forward to you by your subconscious. This push drives you to one particular action. However there may be another set of experiences which may lead to another contradictory action. For example your experiences which may lead you to want to discard any fear of height. Its now you get a choice. The choice you take is the aim you take and determines what is your desired circumstance (the target).

Thus our experiences in the past suggests to us the options that we can take, makes us decide on what we think we want to be. Its Us who has to choose. How we choose also depends on our experience but still I believe that humans have enough will power to choose otherwise.

Please note that the targets (desired circumstance) we set for ourselves may not be perfect and our aim (choice) maybe completely wayward, but these are the end results of how we (and the world) have programmed ourselves.

This is how we evolve our so called destiny. It is just a programming of our past, choices in the present and the effect of external factors  (guided by the unity of the universe) in the future.

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Unity of the universe

I recently read this book "The Tao of Physics". I will admit that i didn't understand most of it and I don't appreciate a lot of what the author 'implied'- Modern science tending to Eastern Mystical thought. However I will concede that I found the book a little informative. It made me understand a lot about quantum physics, relativity theory. It also made me understand lot about Hindu, Buddhist, Zen and Tao thought etc.

My post today will be really a "Random thought" as below: 

Reading the book and thinking a lot I have developed a belief. Each and every act by everybody effects everybody (Humans, Animals and the Inanimate). I don't imply that we have the right to meddle in other people's affairs. What I state here is that each and every thing that we do or happens happens exactly the way it is supposed to happen. There is no other alternative. This is the only way the worldly equilibrium can be maintained.

For example: Today is a lazy Sunday afternoon and I am writing this blog. How does it affect your life? It affects your life in the following manner-

1. I could have been doing a million different things rather than writing this blog right now (Lets take 3):
• Watching television
• Working on career development
• Making plans for world domination
2. Now these scenarios could effect you in a hundred different ways
• Watching television
• I could gain an idea and discuss this with a friend. he writes a status update on facebook related to it. You are his friend's friend and you see it. You build some knowledge around it. You are asked some question in your job interview which you can answer based on what you learnt
• I see a news show. Gain some knowledge. Call up KBC lines. End up at fastest fingers first opposite to you and then beat you there. 
• etc. etc.
• Working on career development
• I end up in an interview panel where you interview me and you select me (and then you suffer me)
• I beat you in an interview
• I get misguided and lose to you
• I interview you
• I interview some relative of yours and select him. Your cousin idolizes that relative and follows his footsteps. The cousin is successful and he proves a great help to you in your bad times
• Making plans for world domination
• I dominate the world- you get affected
• I do something real crazy- somebody you know gets affected. you get depressed
• I don't do anything- but i am still out there
3. All the above means that in that case i don't write this particular blog. Now
• You are not reading it now
• Any effect, belief or comic relief this blog brings to you is negated. The corresponding after effects too
• You would be doing something else rather than reading this blog
• That something else could have affected so many others (including me). In turn this would affect so many others

The universe would be absolutely different if I am not writing this blog. We can say it cud have been better or worse. In a mystical sense however I would say that any other scenario the universe would be unstable. Me writing this blog right now and you reading it right now or not reading it at all is the only way the universe can be stable.

There seems to be a suggestion here that we don't have control or choice about our actions. However I would think of it differently. There can be no action without control or choice. Lets not desist ourselves from doing any good, striving for excellence, caring for others because we think that we don't have choice or control. Our ability to have a choice and control over our very own actions keeps this Universe in equilibrium. We can hope that doing good will spread good. Lets do what we want to do and the Universe to take care of its own. Thus the Bhagvad Gita says

कर्म कर फल की इच्छा न कर. 

"Do your job don't care about results or rewards"

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